Are You Up For The 7 Day Porn Free Challenge?

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Is porn bad for you?  Of course it is.  Is porn good you? You bet.

Huh, what gives, man? How can something be good and bad at the same time? I hear you ask.

I’ll get to that in a moment, but first let’s have a look at the mechanics of the 7 day porn free challenge.

The idea comes from Mark Manson’s book, Models; Attract Women Through Honesty.

Manson, and others, argue watching too much porn weakens one’s sexual prowess, and therefore, when sexy time comes around you’re either:

(a) unable to get or sustain an erection because you have desensitized your old fella from jerking off too much;

(b) experience delayed ejaculation;

(c) become overly sensitive and cum too soon.

I Call Bullshit

The lads over at high existence go deeper suggesting the negative impacts of jerking off over porn makes us desire ‘real’ women less, experience irrational anxieties when we think about sex, and find porn more interesting than having sex with another human being.

Bullshit.

I masturbate over porn at least once a week, occasionally more, when I’m in between sexual partners, and once every now and then when I’m with someone. I have never found it more interesting than having sex with a ‘real’ woman, or desired ‘real’ women less, nor have I had irrational thoughts, or become anxious thinking about sex.

If anything, it has increased my libido, and I’ve have learned many tricks of the trade from watching porn.  I’ve definitely improved ten fold in the sack. Words can’t describe how I feel when she screams out “you make me so fucking wet!” while I’m nailing her.

In all fairness, though, I have had trouble getting it up in the past.  The question remains, was that because I watched more porn than the healthy dose, or because the woman I was fucking at the time was a complete and utter sociopath?

The jury is still out on that one…

A Wank A Day Makes You Gay

So how is porn good and bad for you at the same time?

Well, first of all, let’s look at masturbation from a medical point of view.  According to the journal, Better Health masturbation:

  • is a safer form of sex that carries no risk of sexually transmissible infection or unplanned pregnancy
  • helps us better communicate our wants and needs to our partner
  • releases sexual tension
  • is a mode of sexual therapy or treatment for sexual dysfunction.

Read: Even The Gods Enjoyed Porn And A Tug Now And Then

Therefore, one could safely deduce that masturbating over porn is a positive, pleasant, normal experience with many benefits.

The problem extends (pun intended) when we become addicted.  What constitutes porn addiction is anyone’s guess but the general consensus is when it consumes your life.

In a nutshell you are addicted to porn when you:

  • prefer masturbating over porn than being intimate with a real woman;
  • use it to manage anxiety or stress;
  • masturbate at work, in public, or other ‘inappropriate’ places
  • start masturbating over hard corn porn, for example, bestiality, or gay porn

I’m not a psychologist or sexual therapist, but those points seem plausible.  By the way if you’re wanking over gay porn once a day you’re gay, or turning gay.

If you think you have a porn addiction it is advisable you consult your physician, or talk to a trusted male friend or family member

So back to the 7 day porn free diet and why I’m doing it.

I don’t have a porn addiction, however, as I’m currently in between sexual partners as at writing this, I am finding myself obliterating my willy over porn more than I normally would.

Mark Manson says when you hit this point masturbating once in a 7 day period is the cure.

And when you do masturbate, he says, you must do so on a particular day over a ‘real’ woman and not porn.

As a man who loves a challenge, I’m up for it.

Wednesday is the day I’ve chosen because that is my gym de-load day; might as well make it my unload day as well.  My number one reason for doing this challenge is because, while I’ve never had a problem with getting and sustaining an erection, my sexual partners have told me I cum too soon at times.

Let’s see if the 7 day porn free challenge helps.

If not, I’m still investing in myself, strengthening my will power and mental toughness, and most importantly, becoming a better man.

 

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