How To Communicate Effectively With Women So You Score Everytime (4)

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In part 1 of How To Communicate Effectively With Women we looked at how confident body language, and maintaining eye contact until she looks away first, makes you very attractive – you draw women to you.

We then learned how and why women use compliance and congruence tests during the interaction.

If you haven’t read the first three parts do so now.  Click on part 1 above and follow the links.

In parts 4 and 5  I will continue with effective communication skills and my interaction with ‘M2’.  We will look at what I learned from failing her tests.

You will develop skills in how to act and respond when interacting with women so she relaxes in her feminine and enjoys being with you.

A woman who has high attraction for you will stick around.  She wants you to succeed. She’s wanting you to tap into your masculine energy and be the man your body language said you were.

 

Case Study (cont.)

 

M2 had a ‘Fuck, yes!’ attraction for me.  Her willingness to stay in the interaction and keep testing me proved this.

In my experience, a woman who has neutral attraction will find an excuse to exit the interaction if you fail her tests just once.  Too many men will try to keep things moving despite her lack of interests because she’s ‘hot.’

If you’re one of these guys, and I dare say you are, I urge you to stop doing this.  It’s needy, approval seeking behavior.

Even if you get with her, and unless this is what you want, your relationship will either be just a ‘one night stand’ or a living nightmare. Trust me, I know.

A woman who has high attraction for you will stick around.  She wants you to succeed. She’s wanting you to tap into your masculine energy and be the man your body language said you were.

She will keep testing until you (a) pass her tests or (b) your continued fuck ups drive her away.

N.B – women who are into you never stop testing. More on that in the upcoming posts.

Back to M2 and me.  We were laughing, bantering and arm wrestling. Things were going fantastic. We both had high attraction for each other, so I escalated the interaction by getting her number.

I said I didn’t want to travel that far and asked if she would like to meet up in the city, which was close for her but not for me.

It was weak, needy and approval seeking

How to ask women for their number

You don’t.  You take out your phone, hand it to her, and say “give me your number.”  Successful, confident people assume things will go their way and that they will always get a favourable outcome. They assume a ‘yes’ in every interaction and situation. It’s up to the other person to say no.

M2 gave me her number and we continued on with our interaction for about five minutes and then Bam! she zoned in on another congruence test.

“Go and mingle with other people now…you’ve got my number.”

Ouch!

As I still had my ‘training wheels’ on I reacted rather than responded and did what she said.

When I contacted her to set up a date she expected me to do what she wanted – meet her in a bar where she lived and not at one half way which I had suggested.

I said I didn’t want to travel that far and asked if she would like to meet up in the city, which was close for her but not for me.

It was weak, needy and approval seeking.

She replied with “I’m working late tonight.”

“Huh, you just said you wanted to meet up?”

No reply.

I had failed another congruence test.

I contacted her a week later and, needless to say, she didn’t reply.

M2 had a ‘Fuck, yes!’ attraction for me. She overlooked me failing her compliance test and first congruence test. She overlooked me failing her second test, even her third to some degree.

She was rooting for me, hoping I would be that high quality man she’s been dying to meet.

But I was weak, needy and approval seeking and she wasn’t going to stand for that – no high quality woman will.

 

Feminine energy is about love and opening up to receive love, happiness, laughter, dancing, bonding and connecting.  If you can keep in her feminine energy you will score everytime, sex or otherwise.

 

Why does she use these tests?

She uses these tests to see if you are what you say you are.  They are mostly, if not all, on a subconscious level.

Having confident body language will attract her and get her interested in or curious about you, but she needs to know is it just for show or are you genuinely a confident, non-needy, non-approval seeking ‘alpha male.’

Women aren’t attracted to men like we are to them.  Men’s attraction is 95% based on looks. Women’s attraction is 95% based on personality, character, confidence, and your ability to make her feel wanted and feminine.

Remember, feminine energy is about love and opening up to receive love, happiness, laughter, dancing, bonding and connecting.  If you can keep in her feminine energy you will score everytime, sex or otherwise. We will go further into that in the part 5.

How to handle her compliance and congruence tests

Before we look at ways to handle her tests I want to take this opportunity to go over these with you .

A compliance test is when she asks you to do something for her that is unreasonable or which she could do herself.

Example 1: She asks you to hold her drink, bag, coat, etc. while she attends to something and could easily put the objects elsewhere – on the ground, on the bar, on a chair and so forth.

How to communicate effectively:  “Put your jacket on the chair …no one’s sitting on it. Even better, hang it up in the cloak room that way your hands will be free to feel me up!”

 

Learn How To Pass Congruence Tests  here

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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