He Went From No Sex To More Ass Than A Toilet Seat: Here’s How

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He Went From No Sex To More Ass Than A Toilet Seat is a look at one man’s journey from being utterly useless with women to, well, getting more ass than a toilet seat.

In this post we look at the methods our hero employed to:

  • Change his negative perception of online dating
  • Stop playing the blame game
  • Become clear on who he wanted to date
  • What he wanted in a relationship

Either Way You’re Right

“I’ve tried Tinder.  I’ve tried Match.com. I’ve tried Plenty of Fish, OK Cupid, RSVP… I’ve tried most of them…they’re all a waste of time. Or maybe I’m just not that good looking or interesting.”

This was our hero’s way of thinking six months ago. One of my all time favorite quotes is by Henry Ford who wrote: If you think you can, you can. If you think you can’t, you can’t…either way you’re right.

Our hero thought he wasn’t a catch so he very rarely came across anyone that interested him or was interested in him.  On the odd occasion he did find someone he was keen on they’d never return his messages or they had a “last online 3 weeks ago” pinned to their status.

His limited success – a few conversations here and there with women who were ‘so, so,’ – reinforced this belief: “I’ll never meet anyone online.”

Thing is, people meet online every day.  In fact people are connecting as you read this.  It took awhile, but our hero started getting more ass than a toilet seat.

Here’s exactly how he did it.

He asked for help

Prior to this he had been trying to do it on his own.

This is never a good thing.

But I can’t blame him. I swear we men are born this way.  Heck, I’d rather get lost then ask for directions, especially from another man.

Anyway, I remember our first Skype call.  It was 6 a.m, freezing cold, and pissing down rain…here in Melbourne anyway.  Our hero was enjoying a Scotch on The Rocks and a balmy New York summer’s evening.

I wasted little time getting down to business…

“So hero why have you chosen online dating? Who are you looking for and why? What do you want in a relationship? What can you bring to the table?”

“I …erm…ah…shit, you know what, I’m not really sure to be honest with you,” he replied.  “Actually, that’s not entirely true.  I’ve chosen online dating because I’ve had fuck all success otherwise with women.”

“That’s alright,” I said, “We’ll change that soon enough.  Right now all I want you to do is sign the following and email it back to me:

I (name) commit to  playing full out in my coaching sessions with Michael Riley. I agree to follow the advice through and through, and complete the exercises/workshops to the best of my ability.

Our hero emailed me back straight away. He was committed to getting results. He wanted to have sex ( in case you haven’t already guessed our hero was a virgin). But even though he knew online dating would improve his chances of getting laid he carried with him a story that online dating only works for some people, and that in the end he’d never meet a woman this way either.

Here’s how we turned that around:

Self Discovery

I asked our hero to answer three questions and complete the following exercise :

  • What is it about me that women don’t find attractive?
  • Why do I think I won’t meet women online?
  • What small steps can I take to start becoming a better man?
  • What do I want in a woman and relationship?

A few weeks later our hero emailed me his answers.  He said answering these questions helped him realize that it was him that found himself unattractive, not women, and that he needed to work on his self esteem and mindset.  He said he made a financial investment in himself as the first small step in becoming a better man.

When it came to what he wanted in a woman and relationship he said:

a ‘no -strings’ attached relationship with multiple women to start with.  I then want a blonde or brunette, lightly tanned skin, with blue or green eyes, and shoulder length hair (straight). She is fit, and works out 3-4 times a week. She is between 5 ft 6 – 5 ft 8, early to mid twenties, college educated, family orientated…

Now that our hero had clarity I got him to stick the answers on his wall and review them every day.

Within a few months he was banging more ass than a toilet seat.  Within a year his dream woman walked into his life, and they’ve been together ever since.

No shit.

 

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