This resources page includes:

  • Links to the books I am reading in 2017.
  •  You Tube channels/blogs/podcasts of my peers in the dating/personal development space who I draw on for inspiration and advice.
  • Facebook groups I am part of/have created for continuous learning and self- growth

I am reading/have read each of the books listed here 5-10 times and I recommend you do the same, whether it’s these books or others.  Reading a book only once is pointless.  In order to grow or develop new skills you must know the subject matter inside out.  You should be able to give a lecture on it on the spot.  More importantly you must take action and put into practice what you learn.

I update often so make sure you check in regularly – you never know you might find that one resource that’ll change your life over night.  It happened to me when I stumbled upon David Deida’s work!


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Feel The Fear…And Do It Anyway, by Susan Jeffers

The Way of The Superior Man, by David Deida

How To Be A 3% Man, by Corey Wayne

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty, by Mark Manson

What Women Want When They Test Men, by Bruce Bryans

What Women Want In A Man, by Bruce Bryans

The Art of Extraordinary Confidence, Dr. Aziz Gazipura


You Tube Channels

Coach Corey Wayne

Get More Confidence

Alpha Male Secrets

Les Brown Motivational

Tony Robbins


Fashion, Style & Grooming Blogs

Fashion Beans

Mens Fashion Blogger

Mens Biz

(More coming soon)


Must Read Blogs

Mark Manson

Married Man Sex Life

Charles Sledge

Success Magazine

Steve Pavlina


Go For No

Skills You Need


Dr. Robert Glover

Daily Advice For Men



Shrink For The Shy Guy

The Art Of Manliness

The Tim Ferriss Show

The Tony Robbins Podcast

Skilled Gentlemen



Facebook groups

Wim Hof Method

Daily Achievers

Change Through Action (on holidays – check back for updates)





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